Mar 292012
 

I mentioned last week that we finally had sex again! I’d like to elaborate on that a little bit.

I had been really wanting sex for at least two weeks. About a week after my labia reduction, even though I was still tender and swollen, I was really horny! I was also really, really nervous about fucking. I was afraid it would hurt, I was afraid Whitman would get grossed out by some post-op weirdness, I was afraid it wouldn’t be the same. Of course it wouldn’t be the same. My vagina is the same inside, but obviously my vulva is totally different now. I wondered how much those dangly lips had been in the way (or in the mix) for better or worse. In any case, we ended up waiting about three weeks.

Whitman and I were up to the usual, sipping cocktails, lounging in the bedroom, just chatting about nothing and everything. Of course the subject of sex and the stitches came up. “Let me see your stitches, baby,” Whitman said. I slid my panties off, spread my legs slightly and let him take a look, and of course, there were two or three (or five) lingering stitches. Two or three (or five) lingering, annoying, hateful stitches in between me and my man. As you may recall, I was trying to hold out until they were completely gone.

I told Whitman that I’d just read that it could be months, not weeks, for the last few to dissolve. At that point, Whitman said, ‘Do you want me to just fuck you anyway?’ Smiling, I said “yes,” rather shyly. “Okay then.” He put down his drink, grabbed the massage oil, and told me to lie back.

He removed my shirt (I was wearing his shirt, actually), and started sucking my nipples. It was electrifying. Truly. I felt like I was humming with electricity. He poured a little oil on his free hand while still massaging and nibbling at my breasts. As he rubbed the oil over my breasts, down my belly and all over my pussy, I thought I would have an orgasm right then. Whitman was gentle and very careful as he rose up, climbed between my legs and slowly slid his cock into me.

hard-orgamsI gasped, not from pain, but from the shock of being entered again after so many weeks. As Whitman slid the rest of the way in, I was amazed by the feeling of being so full, and overwhelmed by emotion. I whimpered. I wanted to cry. I didn’t cry. I DID cum. Almost instantly.
I rarely orgasm from intercourse, so it was even more overwhelming when I did this time. I ended up having two more orgasms in rapid succession. No pain, just an extraordinary feeling of being full and close to Whitman and wonderfully, orgasmically in love. Again, the urge to cry joyful tears nearly took over, but I held back…mostly because I didn’t want to scare Whitman or freak him out.

It actually did hurt when Whitman lifted my legs to his shoulders – my tender new skin was SO not ready to be stretched that way yet. He turned me around and fucked me from behind, doggy style. There was no pain at all, and he was able to fuck me very hard. I felt like he was extra-deep inside of me. It may just have been in my mind, but I felt like the barrier of my lips was gone, and we were physically closer, even if just by millimeters. There was no pushing and pulling of my pussy with each stroke. We were fucking and it was just me, open for Whitman…and Whitman balls-deep inside of me.

Bonus: post sex – there were no stitches left!

Mar 242012
 

Tantric Binding Love™ Collar and Cuffs packagingThe California Exotics Collar and Cuffs from the Tantric Binding Love collection is an adorable three piece bondage set. I know “bondage set” and “adorable” don’t exactly sound like a match made in a sex toy store, but trust me, I know cute when I see it!

The set consists of two elastic cuffs with sewn on D-rings and clips, and an elastic collar with a vertical  extension designed to be worn in the back of the collar from neck to waist. The collar is 1.5” wide and 17” in length, but using the Velcro, this could extend to fit a much larger neck.

The 21” long extension is 2” wide and conveniently provides two D-rings for attaching the wrist cuff clips.  A loop sewn in to the top end of this strap allows for sliding it on and off of the collar. That flexibility means that all of these pieces can be used with other bondage pieces, together or separately. This where the CUTE comes in: Both cuffs and the back strap are adorned with red satin bows, and the D-rings are shaped like hearts!Tantric Binding Love Collar and Cuffs

The heavy elastic wrist cuffs are 61/2” in circumference, and this could definitely be a tight fit for some. They easily slip on my wrists, which are rather small, but they are definitely snug. These are stretch-to-fit and there is no way to adjust the size, as they are stitched together. The inside seam can be a little rough, but is easily remedied with an emery board. Just file off any rough edges.

The back strap can be worn in the front, but this allows for a wide range of movement, unlike when hands are clipped to the strap in the back. This is best used for light bondage, because any way you wear it, it’s easily escapable. Even with my hands clipped behind me to the long strap at my waist, I was able to reach up and unhook the collar.

This is a darling ‘beginner bondage’ set with tight cuffs, and an adjustable collar. The bows and California Exoticsbackstrap add to the visual allure of seeing your lover tied up. Even though the bows are very feminine, don’t think of this as just for girls only. I can imagine that there are plenty of dommes who would love to see their boys in this, too!

Thanks to California Exotics, who provided us this toy at no cost  in exchange for an honest review.

Mar 222012
 

Well, Whitman and I had sex, and yes, it DID feel soooo goooood.

(In theory, I guess I could post “Sexual Healing” because my sex is all healed(-ish), but this one is on repeat in my head.)

Mar 192012
 

My old labia had a fan, and I didn’t even know it! Certainly Whitman’s always been a fan, and I’ve never been worried about that. However, it’s always nice to hear from a random stranger now and then about how awesome my pussy is and/or was.

I had a really nice comment on Reddit over the weekend. It made me smile:

  “Plus one for a sex blog, but jeeesus christ you had a labiaplasty!? Your labia was beautiful before, the suckable kind of lips you can make out with for hours. It’s like cock, more is better…”  

Classyguy1978 elaborates further here on his love of all things labia. Okay, so maybe he wasn’t really  my fan, he’s just a fan in general. You’ve just got to appreciate a man who loves pussy like that!Labiaplasty Healing - 3 weeksHere she is at 3 weeks. Still looking a little rough. I’ll be happy to lose the last few stitches and see how I’m REALLY going to look. [I’m rather intrigued by what I think of as “the pussy nugget” – the upside down heart formed by my clit hood.]

Mar 182012
 

Fifty Shades of GreyThe erotic story “Fifty Shades of Grey” is all over the news suddenly. It’s being labeled as ‘mommy porn’ and something like mainstream BDSM. Somehow ‘mainstream BDSM’ sounds like an oxymoron, BUT there is the promise of bondage and spanking. I must admit  I also can’t stand to be ‘out of the loop’ culturally, so of course I’ve downloaded the book. I’m now in the loop for better or worse. (Mostly worse, but I can’t put the damn thing down.) Consider this a Public Service Announcement:

I’ve quickly made it to page 50 out of over 300, and STILL. NO. SEX. No spanking, no kneeling, no service.

What I’ve read so far is like a cross between the wretched reading that is Twilight (considering that this story started out as Twilight “fan fiction” that makes sense) and a Harlequin Romance. Here is one of my favorite least-favorite lines:“Ana, there’s something about him.” Her tone is full of warning. “He’s gorgeous, I agree, but I think he’s dangerous. Especially to someone like you.”

Blahblahblahblah! Get to the SPANKING ALREADYYYYYYYYYYY!!

Gak. It’s sappy, and it’s not well written. I’m just here for the smut, OBVIOUSLY.

Update: I have finally arrived at the spanking and sex scenes. I’m unimpressed, although I can see how this has sparked the imagination of women everywhere. The reality is that it’s sort of “BDSM lite” but it does remind me that I’m really ready to get back to some raunchy sex with Whitman.

carrie's story

 

 

For what it’s worth, there is a MUCH better book called Carrie’s Story with essentially the same concept – college student owned by handsome zillionaire, but it’s well-written and extremely sexy. Spend your money there.

Mar 172012
 

Our regular readers know that Whitman enjoys putting SexFairy into positions she cannot escape from. It’s not that she’ll move if instructed not to, but knowing she couldn’t even if she wanted to is so much more fun. [Is it? Sure.] Fortunately our friends over at Babeland offered us something new to try, as we were just hanging around anyway. They sent us some Door Jam Cuffs (a Whitman request, of course). The photo is one of the hotter sex toy photos we’ve seen in a while. Sportsheets also has a fun little video, if you are into that sort of thing.

Door Jam Cuffs sexy photoThe Door Jam Cuffs set is a pair of restraints, each consisting of a Sportsheets fleece padded velcro cuff, permanently attached, via a sewn-in metal ring, to about 8” of nylon strap that wraps around  a 4” long plastic tube with rubber ends (to protect your doors).  The 2”wide fleece cuffs are a little over nine inches long, with an additional five inches or so of velcro. These cuffs could easily accommodate wrists or ankles up to about 12” in diameter, assuming a 1”+/-  overlap.

To us, the beauty of this product is it allows you to secure your lover almost anywhere there is a door. (Though outside the house on a snowy day may be pushing it.) Just throw the tube end over the top of the open door, close the door, put her wrists into the straps, and have your way.

A few usage notes I didn’t think of until we actually started trying them:

  • On an 80” high door, your wrists need to reach up to about 71”, so it’s not for the shorter among us.
  • If you expect the cuffed partner to be pulling on them hard, you really want to have the cuffs on the side of the door that you push open. It works the other way but it could stress out the door and possibly bust something, and not in a good way. Note most bedroom doors open into the bedroom, so your play will be on the outside of the bedroom. Same with bathroom doors. Just something to think about.
  • It will work equally well on the side of the door but not necessarily so on the floor. We have carpet with a bit of gap and the tubes just slide on through the bottom. If your door has a 3/4” gap or greater, this option won’t work for you.
  • The plastic tube can be removed from the straps to be used with other bondage items, or for washing.
  • These can be combined with other bondage equipment, like other straps, cuffs, and clips for use between two doors.

Door Jam Cuffs high heels

I’ve tied SexFairy to door frames before but it took a bit more ingenuity and therefore time, which I hate to waste, especially when her ass is sitting there just waiting for me to abuse it.

Bla Bla Disclaimers: So yes, this is a free product review, but hell, we love just about anything having to do with sex. And pending the final week or so of SexFairy’s Labiaplasty recovery, we haven’t put the thing to a serious test, outside of trying it enough to know she’s there, at least till I open the door.

Mar 152012
 

I haven’t had sex (with another person) in almost three weeks now. I’ve gone for way longer periods of time without sex (weeks, months, a year). Who hasn’t, right?

Save a Virgin

This time is different, though. I’ve had surgery on my labia, which left a few stitches in and around my vagina. There are also a couple of stitches in and around my clitoral hood. I told Whitman that when we do finally have sex, it will be like I’ve been REVIRGINIZED!!

Mar 142012
 

The title says it all. There are lots of ways to explain it, but basically today is “Guys’ Valentines Day” – all they need is a steak and a blowjob. Let’s do our part, ladies and give them what they want!

Happy Steak and BJ Day!


Mar 092012
 

I arrived at the Gynecologist / My Hero’s office right on time yesterday. I was actually a little nervous about my follow up visit. I think maybe the doc is the first person to ‘really see’ what I look like post-op, and that’s why I was nervous.

Whitman has seen a little bit of the “new me,” obviously. (Mostly because I randomly keep saying, “Look how cute!” and pulling down my panties to show him the frontal view. I’m obsessed.) I’m trying to wait though, until the stitches are gone and I’m all healed up and extra pretty to really show him.

labiaplasty 2 weeks later

2 weeks

Anyway…after circling the packed parking lot I entered the packed waiting room. (I always wonder if this is a good sign or a bad one…who has to circle the lot at the GYNECOLOGIST??) I smugly took my seat among all of the pregnant ladies waiting. I was smug because a) I’m not pregnant, and b) I have a cute new pussy.

Fast forward to the exam room. “So,” he says, “How sore were YOU two weeks ago?”
“Not that bad,” I answered. He stopped in his tracks, looking shocked. We talked a little about my recovery – how it hurt quite a bit day one and two, but mostly I considered myself  ‘sore’ the rest of the time. He then let me in on a little secret: “Every time I do this surgery, I just cringe. It just makes my scrotum retract.” Laughing, he demonstrated by pulling his fists in little balls close to his neck. He wins the Best Doctor Ever Award, hands down.

He then actually took a look. I think he was as pleased as I am! We discussed my bruising, the rest of the stitches (soon to be completely dissolved), and that since I’m still tender and a little sore that I should wait another week to resume sexual activity. I knew this already. I can tell my body that part of my body is not ready for sex yet. The rest of my body, and actually the rest of my genitals, actually, are TOTALLY ready for sex. I’m craving sex. I’m dying for sex.

Blowjobs for Whitman, Whitman masturbating over my chest and then over my face while I suck his balls and he pours a huge amount of cum onto my face…?? All great, and really, really hot, but no substitute. I want to fuck.

Mar 032012
 

March 8 is International Women’s Day. Since 1909, this day has been set aside to show appreciation for women, women’s achievements and feminine empowerment. Perfect! I think it’s absolutely fitting then, that it’s also the 2-week birthday of my new labia minora. I feel extremely empowered by my ‘new look’ and I’m so glad I had the surgery. I have a doctor visit on International Women’s Day, and I hope I get cleared for some sexy time. I’m not sure that’s going to happen this week, because I’m still healing, but a girl can dream, can’t she? The reality is, though, that I feel sexy and beautiful, and can’t wait to wear something sexy for Whitman to celebrate!!

Unfortunately, my lounging in lingerie project has been on hold due to my recovery, but that hasn’t stopped me from buying more sexy lingerie! As I’ve mentioned before I don’t need much of an excuse to shop for pretty girlie things!

EdenFantasys continues to add new lingerie to their product line, and IBecome a goddess wearing sexy and erotic lingerie from EdenFantasys keep grabbing them up! (I’m stocking up for daily wear again when I’m ‘back in the game’!)