Her beautiful body, and everything in-between.

 labiaplasty, lovegasm, Whitman's Sampler  1 Response »
Feb 222012
 

I love SexFairy.

It doesn’t matter if she thinks she is sexy or not. It doesn’t matter if others think she is sexy (though they all do) or not. I don’t care what “society” says. I love SexFairy with all my heart. Every day, in every way, she is the most beautiful perfect woman I’ll ever know.

On a recent weekend morning, we woke up, and I looked over at her, and said “you are so beautiful”. Now most women don’t consider themselves at their best first thing in the morning, and SexFairy commented as such. To which I replied, “I love the woman I go to sleep with, and I love the woman I wake up with”. She is always, both, and everything in between.

SexFairy’s Labiaplasty posts have generated some attention, and it’s time I threw my two cents into this pot. Labia collage

I love her labia as they are. Yes they hang and sometimes make my finding the sweet juices of her pussy a bit of  a manipulating challenge, but that doesn’t make me want them “trimmed”. So, why do I support her in this decision to have Labiaplasty?

Because I know it bothers her. She feels self conscious about it. They get in the way DURING sex (for her, not me). She can’t ride a bicycle because they’d get twisted up and hurt.

So to all you naysayers – my question is….
AT WHAT POINT DOES A PHYSICAL DISTINCTION BECOME SEVERE ENOUGH TO BE SURGICALLY ATTENDED TO???

And the answer is, whenever that person wants it taken care of. It’s not your business AT ALL, if someone gets a nose job, an abortion, a tummy tuck, or labiaplasty.

Respect the individual’s right, to take care of themselves, as they wish. Beyond that, shut the fuck up, please. It isn’t your body. You have as much right to tell someone else what they should or shouldn’t do, as I have to tell YOU  what you should or shouldn’t do with your body.
Correct Answer – NOT.

I love SexFairy’s labia now. I’ll love them tomorrow after her surgery, and I’ll love them for all the years we will have together, and then some. Just like every other part of her body and soul.

My submissive Valentine

 lovegasm, Whitman's Sampler  2 Responses »
Feb 142012
 

My Dear SexFairy,

You are inappropriately named as SexFairy. For you are neither mythical as a Fairy, nor do you cater to only my sexuality. You are the nourishment of my soul.

Yesterday’s New York Times has an article about the “Benefits of Exuberance” where a study’s author is quoted as saying “But if you combine this adventurousness and curiosity with persistence and a sense that it’s not all about you, then you get the kind of creativity that benefits society as a whole.” It goes on to link out to a quiz called  “The Well Quiz: How Adventurous Are You?”  – [We both took the test. SexFairy got a 49 and I a 57] Keira Knightley belted

Two quotes from the movie A Dangerous Method were particularly notable to me.

  • The first…When Jung tells Sabina that his love-making with his wife is “tender” she replies: “With me I want you to be ferocious; I want you to punish me.”
  • Later she comments that “true sexuality demands the destruction of the ego.” Which is followed immediately by this wonderful belt spanking scene.

I note these seemingly disparate items as a summary of what’s perfect about us. We both want novelty and change in our lives.  While we could do this apart, we are both freer to explore the world and ourselves, together. I am naturally ferocious with you, as you want me to be.

Every day is Valentines Day with you my SexFairy. Now come home so I can tie you to the banister and paddle your ass royally.

Eternally ours, Whitman.

Lovegasm

 Fairy Dust, lovegasm  6 Responses »
Jul 132011
 

heart_rate_by_shorty6636-d33l3usHave you ever had one? Do you know what it is? If not, I feel so sorry for you.

You know that feeling of ‘ohmygodiloveyousomuchandicouldjusteatyouuprightnow’ that you sometimes get when you’re in love?? Sometimes it just comes over me like a wave.
Like an orgasmic love wave. I feel it sneaking up and building, and then just BAM! OHMYGOD!
I just start smiling and want to kiss Whitman’s face off.
It’s just a burst of “I just LOVE HIM SO MUCH!”

THAT’S a lovegasm. I hope you have multiples.

Lust in the Supermarket

 lovegasm  3 Responses »
Jun 112011
 

You know how sometimes after a while the person you’re with starts to look like just the person you’re with, and not the hot girl you see you cross the way that you have sexy thoughts about?

The other day I was in the supermarket and saw this hot looking woman leaning deep into a refrigerated counter. She was wearing a tight tube top and jeans and I could not stop staring at her ass. I thought as I stared at her ass that I would so much like to go up and hit on this woman and see what I can make happen.

sex woman supermarket freshWhat makes this incredible for me and so different from prior experiences is that this was SexFairy I was looking at. We have been together a while now. For  me to still want her in such a horny way, in such a public place as I might any hot sexy stranger, was an incredibly hot moment for me.

I hope this never changes or goes away.

From the aisles of the supermarket, I remain completely infatuated.

Enraptured

 Toy Reviews  6 Responses »
May 212011
 

So, in case any of you missed the memo, the end of the world is nigh. Nigh, as in NOW. I have to admit that as a young teen, I had some experience with Pentecostal Christians, tales of The Rapture, The Bride of Christ being taken away and the rest of us ( OBVIOUSLY the cool /fun people) left behind. To me, this just means that I can now afford REALLY NICE STUFF if all the stores will be unmanned. Looting, anyone??

may-21-2011

By the way, I’m here to say that I unequivocally call BULLSHIT on this. There. You heard it here first, kids.

All this Rapture rap got me thinking, though, about being ‘enraptured’ and what that means.

Enraptured: tr.v. en·rap·tured, en·rap·tur·ing, en·rap·tures: To fill with rapture or delight.

en·rapture·ment : n. Synonyms: enrapture, entrance2, ravish, thrill, transport
These verbs mean to have a powerful, agreeable, and often overwhelming emotional effect on someone.

I know that regular readers of this blog might think that my relationship with Whitman is fraught with drama…what  with all of the email-reading, Dom/sub, naughty points, extra people-fucking, etc. We sound like a couple of insecure whacked out sex-crazed kids sometimes.

But TRULY, I AM ENRAPTURED. DAILY (see definitions above).  I am AMAZED daily by the love that we have. I am delighted and filled with wonderment at how this love found me, or found us. I thrill every moment that we are together and think constantly about the next time that we will be together.  I CAN’T BELIEVE I’m so lucky to have this man in my life. Overwhelming. Really.

That being said, since today’s OBVIOUSLY everyone’s last day on Earth, let’s GET FUCKING, FOLKS!

Gmail motion

 lovegasm  1 Response »
Apr 012011
 

from http://mail.google.com/mail/help/motion.html

Naked and Alone

 Naked and Alone  Fairy Dust, lovegasm
Mar 312011
 

I miss my lover.

Whitman and I are in a “some distance” relationship. It’s not exactly LONG long-distance, but we are definitely separated by time, place, and other people.  For years it was even more so…we only saw each other occasionally…maybe once a month or so. That’s recently changed, and we’re spending mad amounts of time together these days. It’s heavenly.

While we’ve been able to spend much more time together lately than we’ve ever  been able to, I’m alone tonight.

I remember this feeling all too well, and I don’t like it.

Hurry back to me, my sexy man!!

crazy for you

 lovegasm, whoregasm  No Responses »
Mar 062011
 

crazy for you

As Sex Fairy said here.

I know what you are looking at

 lovegasm  No Responses »
Mar 052011
 

SexFairy and I recently went to this local beachside festival. It was hundreds of people with a heavy proportion of college age men and women wandering all over. After getting our second round of beers, we are standing face to face, sipping down enough beer so as not to spill as we walk around more.

SexFairy is telling me some story (I have no idea what, to be blunt) as this woman walked by, stopping just behind my Fairy. About 20 and thin I know what you are looking atwith dark hair something in the range of healthy C cups and just enough nipple poke to catch, and HOLD my eyes.

It could have been hours, but more likely less than 10 seconds, when SexFairy says, “what are you looking at”, and then she says, staring at my reflective sunglasses, “I know what you are are looking at. I can see her reflection in your glasses.”

I quickly move my gaze back to my SexFairy, smile, and say, “I love you so much, my clever lover.”

At one time, in other relationships, I most likely would have lied, or fumbled some “nothing” answer. But with SexFairy, I tell her everything, and she relishes in that as much as I do.

So you dogs out there, remember, while your sunglasses my hide your eyes, they don’t hide your direction, and yes I mean that in more than one way.