Jul 302012
 

I’m thinking more and more about women in a sexual way lately. I certainly love looking at pictures of naked beautiful bodies, and that’s not new. I don’t think of myself as bisexual…just ‘open-minded’ and in love with sex. That attitude has led to encounters with men, women, whomever. So, I have had sex with women, and I’ve liked it. Does that make me bisexual?Historically, I’ve mostly been the recipient of the attention, but I’ve certainly passed out some licks and nibbles myself. I’ve never considered myself an expert at pussy (even though I have one), but I love to be good at what I do. Maybe that’s why I think I’m “not so bi” – unfamiliarity? Fear?

sexy girl kisses

So now all of a sudden I keep thinking about looking at, petting, tasting, worshipping a pussy??
I want to feast on tits??
I want to kneel in front of a woman like I would in front of Whitman, but instead of a probing cock, find a warm welcoming wet spot??

What’s going on here?? I think Whitman has performed a great feat of psychological conditioning over the past few months. Allow me to explain:

Whitman turns on some sexy, arty, hot girl-on-girl or threesome porn, then instructs me to lie back and watch. He then plays with my pussy, licking, teasing, touching, toying…all the while making sure that I’m still watching. If I start to look away in a moment of ecstasy or close my eyes to enjoy what he’s doing, I get a little reminder slap.

threesome doggie kisses

He says naughty things to me, like “Watch the girls playing with each other. That’s what good girls do.”  We all know I have a raging desire to be a “good girl” for him.  Hearing this, feeling good, watching the girls…well, let’s just say the words have had an amazing long-term effect. I’m dreaming of pussy again. I hope I can figure out what to do with it, and soon.

Jul 232012
 

naked girl cuffed to ceilingWe have a decent assortment of bondage equipment already; leather cuffs, thigh straps, bed straps, collars, hog ties sets, spreader bars, etc. We also have a pair of furry handcuffs we’ve been playing with lately. If anything, we have so many bondage things that it’s often hard to find the one I’m looking for, especially with a rock hard erection in the dark.

So I was admittedly a little dismayed when CalExotics sent us what appeared to be, hand cuffs. Plain chrome hand cuffs. These aren’t police grade or anything. Thin metal with a little safety latch on the side (should one partner pass out while fucking the other hand cuffed partner, for example).  Am I missing something? I have had these for a few weeks now, not reviewing them because I’m thinking, what the hell am I supposed to say, about hand cuffs. It’s like writing about a glass of water.

Chrome Hand Cuffs

Then I started thinking, and looking, and thinking. What’s NOT normal about these cuffs, is the chain between them. It’s over 18” from cuff to cuff. Most play cuffs are more like 3”.  I started doing image searches for “sex hand cuffs”, “long chain cuffs” , even “passed out sex hand cuffs” cause ya never know. And my brain started working, thought it admittedly had to fight for blood.

Naked girl cuffed in bath tubSo with a long chain between the cuffs, what could you do that maybe you couldn’t do with the short chain. Well, you could go around much larger things. You could stretch and reach out to “attachments”  that short cuffs wouldn’t. You could cuff your girl to her girlfriend, and then take them out to a bar for drinks. They could move, but not separate. With the right clothing, only you would know. Like Siamese sex twins. Good for covert bondage.

A simple benefit is, she could have the cuffs on and lie on her back. Her hands would be on her side, but she could only reach by moving the other hand in the same direction. And it wouldn’t hurt because she would not be lying on top of the cuffs, just the chain.

Another thing I realized, is that in it’s own way, this is kind of adjustable. Any link can be inserted into the cuff bar before you close it, essentially allowing you to shorten the effective length. Sure there’ll be some links hanging loose, but then if she runs, you’ll be better able to hear her!

Here’s a short list of other thoughts I’ve had. I’m sure there are millions more ways to use hand Nude Girl tied to treecuffs, outside of a police car. But most of these ideas take advantage of the fact that the chain is longer.

  • bed post
  • tree
  • kitchen cabinet
  • staircase
  • telephone pole
  • around a chair
  • shower bar

Thanks CalExotics, for these fun hand cuffs. With a  little imagination, they too have become a great addition to our sex toy collection.

Jul 102012
 

SexFairy and I enjoyed a fantastic Sunday afternoon.

We drank cherry vodka while swimming in the hot sun. The weather changed and soon we were swimming in a torrential rain storm. The pool water was far warmer than the cold rain, so we stayed in the pool during the rainstorm for about an hour. It was magical.

Back home we drank more and  ate and danced and partied with some friends and then hit the bedroom for some private fun.  I reached over to the nightstand and grabbed for some lube to smooth out the hard fucking I was giving SexFairy. We always have some lube sitting there; often some freebies that were included with some recent sex toy. Being slightly wasted and in the dark, I grabbed a familiar shape and squirted it right on my cock sliding in and out of her beautiful pussy.

The next morning, sober, and in the light, I looked at the nightstand and saw these empty and  identically shaped tubes:

Lube or Toy Cleaner

Well, SexFairy is my fucktoy, and now she was both well fucked, and clean.

In the future, I’ll probably think to move anything that is NOT lube, to a different spot. Naughty, or not.

Jul 022012
 

The Bounding Bunny by California Exotics is a darling little multi-speed purse-sized vibrator. It is part of the Lia Collection of silicone mini-massagers. Although it’s not quite a “rabbit” vibrator, it does have the look of a sweet little bunny, with soft probing ears (or maybe a cute little bug with antennae). There’s no face on this high-quality silicone toy; it’s just a cute bubbly shape. Mine is blue but it is also available in pink and purple.

Lia Bounding Bunny - 5.5"The Bounding Bunny is only about 5.5” long, so it’s easy to take along. Consider yourself warned, however: there is no ‘lock’ on the power button. So far, I’ve had this turn on 3 times in my purse while out and about, at work, or in the store. My advice here is travel with the on AA battery out! The vibrations are strong and buzzy, especially for a toy of this size.

Bounding Bunny LED lightsOne single light up blue button on the very bottom of the toy controls all of the action. Push to start cycling through the speeds and patterns. The light flashes in time with the vibrations, which is an exciting bonus. (Well, it’s exciting if you’re like me, and easily amused.) Hold the button down and the toy turns off. When you start again, the pattern starts at the beginning.

Thanks to CalExotics for letting us check this buzzing bunny out.

Whitman: Last night, with SexFairy bound to herself, and after a bit of massaging, I put a nice long dildo into her pussy, and then grabbed the blue bunny and started tickling her clit with it. After a few minutes of teasing, SexFairy came three times in quick succession. Joy.