Sex Fairy

Oct 282012
 

Dr. Laura Berman ® Weighted Pelvic Exerciser with Stainless Steel Balls Veronica™The Dr. Laura Berman “Veronica” Weighted Pelvic Exerciser with Stainless Steel Balls from California Exotics is not just a mouthful to say (or a long sentence to type,) it’s a pussy-full of fun! The intended use for this 7″ long resin exerciser is strengthening of Kegel muscles.  The resin is a faintly pink, nearly iridescent color, and the steel balls seem to be magically floating inside. There is a slight bulge in the middle and each end. One end is slightly pointed and angled for g-spot stimulation (who says workouts can’t be fun?!), and the other end is rounded. We all know that having stronger pelvic floor muscles means having better sex, in theory, but how about in reality? It works for us!!

This toy arrives in a lovely glossy purple box showing a photo of the toy, but unfortunately with no instructions. Luckily, its use is fairly self-evident: insert and squeeze with your kegel muscles. Each time it’s inside my pussy I try and squeeze it to keep it in, fighting gravity’s attempt to drag it out. The Pelvic Exerciser weighs 6.3 oz., which may not seem like that much, but the vagina was not originally designed to grab onto weights and hold them high and tight, showing off to all the other women in the gym. I can hold this one for 5 to 10 seconds, but as I’m so wet by then it really just wants to slip out.

Whitman likes to use this type of toy by having me get up on my knees next to him in bed while we’re watching TV. He will insert the toy, and as we both continue to watch TV, instruct me to hold it in (distracting!!). If I don’t hold it, he catches it in his hand, and we start all over again. Of course, I can only hold this for a second or so before it starts to slip. The more we do this, the wetter I get, and the harder it is to hold it in. It’s a vicious cycle. Sometimes the cycle ends with us fucking, but just as often it ends up with me going to sleep horny and wet. Oh, the sweet torture!

Pussy weight liftingLast night Whitman was playing with me and inserted this into my ass. At first I’m thinking, “what-the-hell?” but soon enough he had each ball pushed inside my anus and was licking my clit at the same time. I was soaked. He then put all his weight on top of me and fucked me while this was all the way inside my ass. I came 4 or 5 times.

Thank you CalExotics for another great toy that makes us both, very, very happy.

Oct 152012
 

I just read Whitman’s account of our totally successful but nearly-disastrous crisis-averted lost anal plug story! It’s sort of funny in retrospect, and it was sort of funny just after it happened, but as it was happening?? OHMYGAHHH…

I do like anal sex. It doesn’t always work out for me, but when it does, it’s amazing. This was one of those cases. It worked. It realllly worked. Whitman had fucked my ass, and fucked it for real. Pounded it, even. Wow, was I feeling good! Lying in the bed, my hands still loosely attached to my thighs, basking in the throbbing afterglow… and what an afterglow! Happy anal

Smug. That’s how I felt.

Totally smug.

It worked!

Successful anal sex!

Yes!

I reached back with my cuffed hands to touch the plug that Whitman had placed in my ass. I was touching for proof, mostly. I was in a little disbelief that it was inside of me. It’s usually a little bit of work, and I hadn’t even felt this one go in my ass.

I barely touched the little glass base, and felt it it move. It moved like it was just snuggling in to a better position. And it kept moving. And didn’t stop. WHAT?! I felt the flat glass base slip right away from my fingers. Feeling panic, I moved my fingers closer to my asshole, and tried to grab the plug. I felt nothing but the quick slide of the toy and my ass closing around it. With the cuffs around my wrists and thighs, I was helpless to do anything more.Lost anal plug

What was going to through my mind was, “ohmygodohmygodohmygodnonononoooo…!!”
That thought was followed by a quick yelp for Whitman, who had gone to wash up,  “comebackcombackcomeback!!’”
He did, and I managed to squeak out what had happened, and added, “I’m not going to the hospital for this!” He looked, he felt for it, rapidly decided this was above his pay grade, and let me loose.

As you read, I successfully ‘removed’ the plug (and a little santorum, if you must know) by squatting and pushing – like birthing the smallest baby ever, and that’s the happy ending.

Oct 042012
 

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sheer lingerie beautiful nipples

Whitman and I had a little chat this morning, about lingerie, nipples, and my being bi:

   Whitman: That’s pretty lingerie on tumblr

      SexFairy: it IS.  I found it on Pinterest, but it’s  here…the lingerie is pretty OR maybe just her nipples are so pretty :)

   Whitman: that’s the kind of comment someone attracted to women would say. Her nips look awesome perky

      SexFairy: they’re just tiny and pretty. AND yes, very attractive

   Whitman: does it make you think of doing things to her?

      SexFairy: of touching and putting my mouth on her nipples. Things like that?

   Whitman: yes. exactly like that.

      SexFairy: then yes!

   Whitman: you bisexual you

When I saw this picture on Pinterest, I HAD to add it to our Tumblr. I do like the lingerie, but OMG, I was mesmerized by her breasts (or by her nipples, really). I was fascinated by the way she appears topless, but is not. That pink lace is just like a little frosting for her perfect breasts. I want to lick it off.

So, yes. I admit it DID make me think of doing things to her. I think Whitman is always trying to gauge my bisexuality, like maybe it’s too good to be true, and it might go away. Given the vision I had in my mind of sucking those little nipples right through the lace with my hands roaming the rest of her body at the same time? I don’t think my bisexual urges are going anywhere!

Sexy Little Contest – If one of you buys this for me, I will TOTALLY send you a private photo of me wearing it. Maybe even be a photo of me with my girlfriend’s nipple in my mouth! She does have lovely nipples. Best comment wins this, but you do have to buy it for me to get the private photos.

Sep 282012
 

Platinum Edition Personal PleasurizerA box arrived recently. Inside that box was another box. The colorful inner box made a few claims, including that it contained "The Ultimate in Feminine Arousal!”  Damn, and all this time I thought that was my Whitman!

CalExotics sent me their Platinum Edition Personal Pleasurizer to play with. “Sorry Whitman,” I said,  "You can watch, or you can help, but this one is all for me!” (Don’t worry, he really didn’t mind.)

The Personal Pleasurizer Platinum is almost exactly like “The Original” Pleasurizer models, except it adds six more vibrating functions, for a total of nine levels of platinum pleasure. The fun end of this toy is made of TPR, or thermoplastic rubber, and is available in Blue, Purple, and Pink. TPR is a slightly porous material, so you should use condoms and clean well if you share this toy. It’s 7.5” long from base to end with just under 3” of insertable length. That’s okay because this is not meant to be a deep thrusting toy as much as a clitoral and g-spot stimulator.

Even though it’s a big nub, the g-spot end is very flexible. I kind of like the softer flexibility as I often find really stiff vibrators to be just too much at times. The vibrator itself is just below the tickler scoop portion, so the clitoral vibrations are pretty strong, but the g-spot vibrations dissipate somewhat as they travel up the shaft.

I put in two AAA batteries (not included), turned the self locking waterproof top, and gave the single button on the bottom a push. This first level is the lowest  and it’s pretty damn enthusiastic. Two more pushes and it almost jumped out of my hand. I think it wanted to be on my pussy as much as I wanted it there! The next six levels went through a variety of on / on / off / on patterns. These are seriously strong vibrations, especially for such a otherwise small and inexpensive toy.

You can use either silicone or water based lubes with TPS, and I usually go with silicone when I can, but it’s nice having the choice. After playing with this in my hands for a couple minutes while Whitman eagerly watched, I was pretty wet already. I started, gently at first, to play with the Pleasurizer against my skin. As I put it inside me I knew this would not take very long. As soon as the ticklers on the scoop touched my clit I felt an orgasm coming. This quickly took me to the edge and over, helped along by Whitman teasing my nipples while I came. I lost track of how many times I came. Whitman said 5 or 6, but by then, who the fuck is counting anymore!

What happened next, you can pretty much guess. After Whitman fucked me hard for  a nice long time, he picked up the Pleasurizer and gave me one more round on the toy. And after everything else, I think it took about 10 seconds. But I was NOT watching the clock.

Thanks again CalExotics. The fun just keeps on buzzing!

Aug 312012
 

Whitman and I are old enough and experienced enough to consider ourselves sexually “educated”. I mean, at a certain point, you think you know everything there is to know, right? It turns out, though, we’ve had a lot to learn over the past few years.

First, we learned (and are still learning) about each other: what we like, how we’re kinked, some new turn-ons, and surprising things we didn’t even know about ourselves, much less each other. We like costumes, we like rope, we like high quality vibrators. We’re learning as we go, and it’s a continuous process!Rainbow condomsThen we started learning about different sex toy materials, what’s body-safe, what’s not. We learned that our nice silicone toys can’t be used with our favorite silicone lubricants. We now have a large collection of lubes: flavored, not flavored, silicone, water-based, and oil. They all have their place in our sexual repertoire.

Threesome - not us, but could beMost recently, we’ve added some new play partners. Neither Whitman nor I have had to buy condoms in years, but this recent development has added “safe-sex” education to our schedule. There are tons of new condom styles these days! Whitman is sampling condoms of all different sizes, shapes, and materials to find out what feels best.

Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys storeOur relationship started off hot and stays hot because we’ve always been interested exploring and learning about sex and about each other. I hope we never stop.

Aug 232012
 

Our friends at CalExotics noticed that I have been sexually opening up as I’ve increasingly begun to think of myself as bisexual. That, and having a few new girlfriends brought us this fun new sex toy. The Love Rider Dual Action Strap-On 7-function vibrating silicone dildo meant forLove Rider Dual Action Strap-On double pleasure.

This is all silicone, (including the straps) with 6” x 1.5” of large black dildo on one side, and a 2.5” x 1.5” large nubby butterfly- like pad on the other. It comes in black or pink and the vibrator needs two AAA batteries. The dildo end is too large for Whitman’s tight man ass, though he does love his prostate play. We’ve been lucky lately in having some very sexy, very fun, very open-minded new girlfriends to play with. I’ve been especially lucky watching Whitman’s face as we play with them. He is SO in heaven.

We told one of our new friends about this toy and she was more than willing to help out with testing. I was so turned on by our friend I volunteered to wear it and be the fuckER, rather than the fuckEE. I do like how having a play “penis” feels and looks on me.  The straps are the only downside to the toy. They’ll fit a 42” waist and are 3/8” wide and stretch out a bit. It was a bit of work to get it comfortable and tight enough. Once I got it on it was difficult to pull the straps tighter, and it did have some flex even then. We instead removed the straps (easy to do) and put the whole vibrating dildo into a nice leather strap on we have. Love Rider Strap-On lengthBecause it’s silicone, we used some nice water based lube and I slowly began inserting it doggy style into my friend. She quickly backed her ass into it, and off we went. The size is just large enough to be hugely fun but not so much it hurts. The nubby pad rubbed against my clit in a really nice way. I say really nice, because Whitman reached in (he’s so controlling) and turned on the vibrator.

Love Rider Strap-On widthThe vibrator is controlled by a little bullet with one on/off button and one button to cycle through the levels and LED lights to let you know where you are, all on 20 inches of cord. There are seven different levels. Slow, medium, fast, a fast pulse, escalating, triple pulse and pause, and triple pulse followed by hard pulse. The medium felt the best to me, but we sure as hell enjoyed trying them all out. We were both having too much fun to stop and switch places, so we just kept going. Eventually I could see Whitman wanted a turn at both of us so we put the Love Rider away for next time.

There will definitely be a next time. And then it’s my turn baby!

Thanks again CalExotics! Can’t way for the next one! Kisses all around.

Aug 202012
 

clip3So, suddenly everyone Whitman touches squirts like crazy. Except me. First there was Ivy, then our new friend Kitten. He made her squirt twice in a row within minutes, and she said that’s never happened. (She knew she could squirt, just not multiple times.) I was really proud of him, because, well…WOW.
Around the same time, a third friend told me she’d squirted for the first time that week. REALLY?? WHAT THE HELL??

After the second girl, I started to feel a little pouty, like I’m missing out on something. It’s also starting to sound like a bit of a challenge. Certainly I can squirt just as well as everyone else!! Right?? I can do everything!! Can’t I?! I’m the princess, I want one!!

I’m obsessing about it now. I want him to do this to me. I want to do it for him.

We tried this “project” a couple of years ago, and I came to the conclusion that I’m physically not a squirter. Everything I’ve read lately, though, says that everyone is physically capable of doing it. And apparently, Whitman’s the  PussyMaster. Did he not try hard enough on me? Did we give up too soon? I don’t think we cared at the time, but I want to try again.

We put “make SexFairy squirt” on our to-do list for the weekend, along with “install dimmer switch” and things like that. We didn’t quite get to it, even though we did have a sexy debauched weekend (more on that later).

I may suck at squirting, but like I’ve always said, some of us are better at sucking than others!

Aug 152012
 

Readers often make their way to the Naughty Spot via varied wayward search terms.

Some are funny, some are a little scary. Some are just plain ol’ ‘WTF?’ odd.

This one might qualify as all three, but is definitely the funniest I’ve seen in a LONG TIME:

“is there a way to watch lesbians in a shower without a flashdrive”

hot lesbian shower photo

Aug 032012
 

At what point can I call myself bisexual?
I’ve been over this a zillion times in my mind and on this blog:

I’ve had sex with women. I like it. I want to have sex with women, but I like men more, etc., etc.

It occurred to me that maybe I’m doing everyone a disservice by calling myself straight, especially since I’m starting to become so fascinated by the idea of more or regular sex with women. Somehow, in my mind, “bisexual” had to mean I am equally attracted to men and women. I‘m sure I fall somewhere on the Kinsey Scale that’s closer to heterosexual, but nowhere near exclusively heterosexual.  But if I think about it, I’m definitely attracted to some women. Somehow this meant to me that I’m straight – because I’m only attracted to ‘some’ women. (Well, DUHH, I’m only attracted to ‘some’ men, too!!)

Kinesy Scale, am I bi?

I’m not sure why I’ve held to this hard and fast 50/50 idea. I know and completely understand that sexual identity, attraction, and gender identity are fluid and variable and can change over time. I definitely think mine has changed. So according to the Kinsey scale, I’d give myself a 2+, because I’m definitely not 50/50, which is the definition of 3:

2 – Predominantly heterosexual experiences, but more than incidentally
      homosexual experiences
3 – Equally heterosexual and homosexual experiences

But how about THIS scale? According to bisexualindex.org.uk, “not all bisexuals are Kinsey 3’s”. This is their scale, and I think I like it the best:

1 exclusively hetero
2 bisexual
3 bisexual
4 bisexual
5 bisexual
6 exclusively gay

As you can see, I’m right there in the middle.

Aug 022012
 

I’m consistently amazed by how many forms love, sex, and lust can take on. Sex is not just intercourse, obviously, but maybe it’s two people not even touching. I’m talking about mutual masturbation. It can be just as hot, just as arousing, just as sexy as fucking.
(Or maybe it’s called “taking-turns masturbation.” Seriously, what’s the term for this? Serial masturbation?)

Whitman and I were lying in bed, chatting about nothing and everything and sexy stuff in between.  (I’m starting to notice that lots of my stories start this way, but I digress…) We weren’t holding cocktails, as we often are, but we were holding cock. Whitman’s cock, to be specific. Not at first, though. We were just having a varied and wide-ranging conversation, bouncing from here to there and back to here again.

Male masturbationWe were talking about his upcoming business trip and how lonely I’d be, and how nice it would be for me to have company at night while he’s gone. We watched a video online of a cock being teased mercilessly by a sexy lady. I was also telling him about some of my suddenly-bubbling-over bisexual desires… things like placing my mouth to tits, lips to lips, tongue to ass.

As we talked, I lightly stroked Whitman’s cock, which had grown rock-hard. I used my fingers to swirl the pre-cum all around the head. We kept talking casually, and then suddenly he grabbed his own erection, taking it from my hand. It was like an uncontrollable urge. He stroked and stroked, as I lightly brushed his balls with my fingers. He came in an instant, it seemed. Semen was everywhere, coating his cock and his hand. I hopped up to get him a warm washcloth.

Female MasturbationThat’s when I felt the wetness that had escaped my folds and seeped down to my inner thighs. I hadn’t moved or touched myself while I watched Whitman. Just from watching him and whispering dirty words to him I was swollen and dripping wet. I stopped in my tracks and returned to the bed. It was my turn to have an uncontrollable urge to touch myself, and my turn to cum.